35 Best Sex Toys for Men 2023, Tested by Sex Experts

The motor on this self massager is powerful enough to start an engine—we, at least your engine. With 11 different vibration settings, this toy does all the work; just sit back, relax, and enjoy. We’ve found the middle settings to be the “sweet spot,” while cranking it too high was just overkill. But, hey, to each their own.

How to use: Place the massager over the head of the penis. Switch the unit on. Dial in the your preferred vibration speed/intensity.

Fellahs, you haven’t lived until you’ve experienced a legit prostate orgasm. It’s a completely different sensation from a regular orgasm, and this stainless steel men’s sex toy provides just the right amount of pressure and stimulation to get you there—without the help of any vibration. The surface is also smooth and non-porous, which makes clean-up a breeze.

How to use: Start by warming or chilling the wand (optional). Apply a generous amount of lube. Insert whichever of the two balled ends is most comfortable. Massage away (or let your partner do all the work).

A wise man once told us that not all dildos are created equal, and the Velvet Thruster is no ordinary dildo. True to its name, it actually “thrusts” three inches inside of you, so it feels like you’re actively getting penetrated by someone. The best part? The available mix-and-match heads, so you can find the shapes, size, and style that you crave. Our recommendation? Go with the Sammie Prime.

How to use: Apply a liberal amount of water-based lube to coat the entire shaft of the dildo. Slowly insert the head a few inches inside of you and turn on to get a sense of the thrusting action. Slide in and out as you feel most comfortable.

As far as we know, it’s the world’s first harness specifically designed for people with a penis. It has two holes: one for your penis, and one for a dildo. The dildo can come in handy if you’re struggling to get or maintain an erection, or if you want to keep having sex during that pesky post-ejaculation refractory period. “This also makes for the perfect double penetration—without having to have an actual person that you have to buy a drink for and then check on them the next day!” Sparks adds.

How to use: Pull on the harness and adjust the buckles to fit snug and comfortable around your hips and thighs. Insert your penis through the harness’ available second hole (optional). Pleasure your partner with single or double penetration—your call.

For just six bucks (!), this male masturbator is a treat. The silicone feels soft and great against your penis, and once you’re done with it, you just throw it away. Easy clean-up! If we have one complaint, we wish the texture was even more pronounced. It feels pretty damn good, but … it could be better.

How to use: Apply a generous amount of water-based lube to the sleeve or your penis. Adjust grip and pressure as you would to normally masturbate. Enjoy the ridiculously awesome textured feel that’s way better than just a hand.

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Another high-quality sex toy that won’t break the bank, the Free Spirit Scarlet Anal Plug comes with five vibration speeds and five patterns (Intensify, Throb, Rumble, Tremble, and Pulse). But of course, its many colors are what make it unique. In our “laboratory” tests, we loved how well this plug stays put—snug but comfortable. We found settings 3 and 4 to deliver just the right amount of vibration, and the Throb pattern pushed us over the edge more than any other.

How to use: Generously lube the tip of the plug. Slowly insert into the anus until it fits snugly. Dial in your preferred vibration and pattern for maximum pleasure.

This reusable cock ring from Satisfyer is one of the strongest on the market. On its highest setting, this thing feels surprisingly strong. Thankfully, you can dial in a more modest vibration speed, if that’s your thing. The larger, more “bulbous” top presses against your partner’s clitoris in many sex positions, allowing for maximum stimulation. We’ve been able to get around 45 minutes of run time out of it—not bad considering its compact size.

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Are you someone who’s very into music when you have sex (i.e., getting your groove on while you’re getting your “groove” on)? Does a strong bass/beat make you feel more connected to your body and, subsequently, your partner’s? If so, you need to get the Juno cock ring from Lovehoney, which vibrates to music! It’s definitely one of the most unique sex toys we’ve seen in the last year. We found it surprisingly well-made, especially for a roughly $40 (on sale) sex toy. It’s comfortable, easy to clean, and, most important, just plain fun to play with!